If you’ve been following our journey on Instagram (@cyoungphoto) and Facebook, you may have noticed that we have recently moved on from Disney’s movie: Penguins in the Young household, and found our way to the safari of the Lion King.
In this shift from icy landscapes to dessert terrains, it’s turned into a bit more than just “for the love of the lines” in how Luca designs his animal scares.
Where lines of penguins used to find their way around the tables in the first floor of our home, the entire animal kingdom now comes out to play these days, and not just simply in lines, or glimpses of a movie scene… it’s pure art, in it’s most beautiful form.
If you get the privilege to watch our artist work, you will see how the music moves him… it sits in his soul until it bubbles to through his body, escaping his lips in song. At first, he worked to learn the opening of the movie, and the first lines of “Circle of Life”, words that I still have no idea how to pronounce. His fierce determined commitment to getting it right is endearing in itself, but when he matches the tone and diction perfectly, it melts your heart.
As he begins to rifle through his box of animal figurines, studying each one with such care and adoration, he begins to place them intentionally around our large living room. I’ll be in the kitchen emptying the dishwasher, or playing a game with Jack in the playroom, when we’ll hear:
“Oh, I just can’t wait... to be king...”
When he gets to this part of the song, the words are clearer, his voice is stronger, and his cheeks are carrying a prideful smile. Although so many of the lyrics have yet to be mastered, that one line he knows he has right.
With his little fingers, he takes the entire 90 minutes of the movie to create the scene in his reality, refusing to be interrupted, and intensely focused on fulfilling the picture in his head. It’s like he’s been given a blank canvas, new paints, and a large room without interruption, allowed to simply create as he sees fit. It’s breathtaking to watch.
This is our little artist, Luca. And we can’t wait to see what he continues to create as inspiration finds his soul.
In case your soul needs a little inspiration tonight, as these lyrics speak to our souls as we parent autism…
“From the day we arrive on the planet
And, blinking, step into the sun
There's more to be seen
Than can ever be seen
More to do than can ever be done
Some say, "Eat or be eaten."
Some say, "Live and let live."
But all are agreed
As they join the stampede
You should never take more than you give
In the circle of life
It's the wheel of fortune
It's the leap of faith
It's the band of hope
'Til we find our place
On the path unwinding
In the circle, the circle of life
Some of us fall by the wayside
And some of us soar to the stars
And some of us sail through our troubles
And some have to live with the scars” - The Circle of Life, Elton John
Parenting autism continues to feel like this great leap of faith… that we were given the chance to be what our children need… the humility to understand there is so much to learn… the kindness and patience to understand it is not supposed to be easy… the belief that they will continue to show us what inspires and fulfills their souls… and the refusal to let them feel anything less than they deserve…
We are on this path unwinding… but loving the fortune it brings…
Here’s hoping there’s inspiration that’s finding its way to you, like it is for our Luca… reminding you to create without worry of judgement… to sing loudly when you feel proudly… and to take the time during these strange months of COVID, to “never take more than you give…”
After all, it’s the circle of life.
Xo